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GIANFRANCO (JOHN) LUCCHETTA

September 20, 1980

May 21, 2006

 

God saw you getting tired

When a cure was not to be

So He closed His arms around you

And whispered "Come to Me"

You do not deserve

What you went through

And so He gave you rest.

God's garden must be beautiful

For He only takes the best.

In time we saw you sinking,

We watched you fade away.

Our hearts were almost broken,

You fought so hard to stay.

But when we saw you sleeping

So peacefully from pain,

We could not wish you back

To suffer that again.

If you had spoken before you died

These are the words you'd have replied.

"Weep not for me but courage take

And love one another for my sake."

 

 

E PER TE* 

 

è per te
questo fiore che ho scelto
te lo lascio lì
sulla pietra coperta di neve
mentre penso a te
è passato Natale,

un nuovo anno è arrivato,

e tu hai 25 anni per sempre.
E per te questo bacio

nel vento non è molto lo so,

la tua storia meritava piu ascolto,

ma che importa ormai

certo in cielo hai trovato

quel mondo piu giusto

che non hai trovato qui.

Solo che non doveva andar cosi,

e sempre a te il nostro pensiero va

è per te questo bacio Johnny.

 

 

From: dad, mom and Lori

 

 

 

*excerpt from E.Ramazzotti
 

 

 

WE ARE THE GREATER

 

We are the greater, for you come into our lives

Bringing your warmth and joy

Showing glimpses of a wisdom beyond your age

With kind heart and gentle demeanour

Overtop a steely resolve

 

Blessed with love of music and animals

With inner discipline defined

A caring spirit who touched us all

For John, we are now the greater

In your quiet repose

Away from blistering sun and chilly nights

We thank you for making our lives

The better

As your standard is held high

 

Dino Bottero

JOHN LUCCHETTA

 

If a parent could have another son

It would be but John

With strong mind and imbued gentleness;

He embodied those real virtues

Which transcend and define character.

 

Now pain of his leaving percolates so silently

The only, only comfort to be found

Is that he left us for a better place

He was called and so he did respond

And we will never know or understand.

 

Why God beckons His favourite flowers so soon

To His eternal garden

In only that we find a measure of solace

And no where else.

 

Dino Bottero

 

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DEATH IS NOTHING AT ALL

"Death is nothing at all.  I have only slipped away into the next room.  I am I and you are you.  Whatever we were to each other, that we are still.

Call me by my old familiar name; speak to me in the easy way which you always used; put no difference in your tone; wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow; laugh, as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together; pray, smile, think of me, pray for me; let my name be ever the household word that it always was; let it be spoken without effect, without the trace of a shadow on it.

Life means all that it ever meant; it is the same as it ever was; there is unbroken continuity.  Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight?  I am waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near -- Just around the corner.  All is well."

Henry Scott Holland
Canon of St Paul's, London
1847 - 1918

 

 

  

WHEN A LOVED ONE'S GONE

 

Those we love remain with

us, for love itself lives on.

And cherished memories

never fade because a

loved one’s gone.

 

Those we love can never

be more than a thought apart.

For as long as there

is memory they’ll

live on in the

heart.

 

Anonymous

 

 

 

REMEMBER ME

To the living, I am gone.
To the sorrowful, I will never return.
To the angry, I was cheated.
To the happy, I am at peace.
To the faithful, I have never left.
I cannot speak, but I can listen.
I cannot be seen but I can be heard.
So as you look in awe at a mighty forest and its grand majesty,
Remember me.
Remember me in your heart, your thoughts, and your memories.
Of the times we cried, the times we fought, and the times we laughed.
For if you always think of me, I will never have gone.

                                                                 ~Anon

 

WE REMEMBER THEM

At the rising of the sun and its going down,
we remember them.

At the blowing of the wind and in the chill of winter,
we remember them.

At the opening of the buds and in the rebirth of spring,
we remember them.

At the blueness of the skies and in the warmth of summer,
we remember them.

At the rustling of the leaves and in the beauty of autumn,
we remember them.

At the beginning of the year and when it ends,
we remember them.

As long as we live, they too will live;
for they are now a part of us, as we remember them.

When we are weary and in need of strength,
we remember them.

When we are lost and sick at heart,
we remember them.

When we have joy we crave to share,
we remember them.

When we have decisions that are difficult to make,
we remember them.

When we have achievements that are based on theirs,
we remember them.

As long as we live, they, too, will live;
for they are now a part of us, as we remember them.

 

 

Anonymous

 

 

BROKEN CHAIN

We knew little that morning, God was going to call your name, in life we loved you dearly, in death we do the same.
 
It broke our hearts to lose you, you did not go alone, for part of us went with you, the day God called you home.
 
You left us beautiful memories, your love is still our guide, and though we cannot see you, you're always at our side.
 
Our family chain is broken, and nothing seems the same, but as God calls us one by one, the chain will link again.

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